What would life be without sound?
It might still be wonderful but missing an essential element that contributes towards all those precious moments. The same theory applies when it comes to sex. Silent sex is not good sex, it’s mediocre.
Hearing a “oooh” or an “ahhh” of pleasure is like sweet music to our ears when it comes to getting frisky between the sheets, and it’s unfortunate that many of us are too shy to talk dirty or say what we want in the bedroom. But experts agree that we should start doing more of it because speaking or hearing erotically charged content stimulates dopamine transmission and this can enhance the emotional and physical intensity of the experience.
The tricky thing about talking dirty is figuring out what to say. Sometimes it can be downright embarrassing and your mind can draw a blank and the most you conjure up is “ohh, that feels good” – which isn’t bad but there’s definitely more to be said. Read on:
“Fuck”
Simple, effective and you hear the porn stars saying it all the time. It’s basically reassuring your dude that he’s doing a great job, and that you’re enjoying every minute. Fuck is an especially good word to use for rougher sex.
“Go harder”
Another great one that gives him the authority to really ride you and it also signifies that you’re totally into his cock which is usually never a bad thing.
“I’m coming”
Another very simple phrase that gets him all revved up. He feels like his mission has been accomplished and now he can penetrate without having to worry if you’re enjoying because, clearly, you are.
“I love when you touch/lick/kiss my…”
This one is great for you, and he loves to hear it because you are taking a proactive approach sexual pleasure. Let him know what you like, he doesn’t care. He thinks it’s hot and definitely gets you hotter.