So you’ve met someone and you’re definitely considering taking things to the next level i.e. getting hot ‘n heavy between the sheets. But you want to be certain that you’re making the right decision because great sex isn’t just about two people, it’s about a deeper, more sensual connection that you will share with one another. Sexual chemistry really stems from feeling each other’s needs and being willing to forego your own pleasure for someone else’s.
So how can you tell if he’ll be a great lay?
He’s courteous and considerate
Thoughtful men are generally great lovers because they pay attention to the small details. Does he put you before himself by opening the door, pulling out your chair or messaging to check on you? If he’s thinking about you, he’s thinking about your happiness and this absolutely translates to the bedroom.
He’s an amazing kisser
You’ve definitely gone as far as making out and he absolutely knows what he’s doing. With some guys you can just tell that they are going to be awful in bed judging by the way they kiss. The kiss never lies so pay very close attention to it. Your gut will tell you.
He’s genuinely interested in you
When he actually listens to you and looks deep into your eyes when you talk then that is good indicator that a) he really likes you and b) he’d do anything for you (especially during sex). Watch out for men who only talk about themselves because the chances are good that they are self-satisfying and will only aim for pleasure on their end rather than yours.
As a side note, if he makes you feel beautiful and has no qualms about complimenting you then he’s definitely got what it takes. If he’s treating you well outside of the bedroom, he will treat you right on the inside (no pun intended).