The bar scene is the most common social circuit for meeting members of the opposite sex. It’s a loose environment where everyone is having a carefree good time and actively there seeking to meet new people. But have you ever found yourself misreading signals from women and making pitiful pick up attempts? Don’t worry, this happens to most men. The key to a successful bar pickup is being able to read between the lines so that you understand when you’re welcome and when you’re not.
Here are some tips.
Read her body language
If she’s giving you coy seductive glances from the across the room, then you know she’s into you. If it starts with a long lingering glance where she shyly turns away once you establish eye contact or if she looks at you, looks away and looks back, then you know it’s for real. Once your meet her gaze, the onus is on you to make the first move. Do it quickly before the moment passes.
Approach Casually
Stop think about cheesy pickup lines. They never work. You want to approach slowly, steady and confidently. Give her a grin and calmly greet her. A simple “Hey” or “Hi” usually does the job. Gauge her response and go from there. Talk about something general like the atmosphere of the bar, or compliment something unique about her outfit. If she’s into you, she will want to continue the conversation.
Set your seduction tune
The eye contact is heavy, and she’s laughing at your jokes. Her body is tilted towards you, and here demeanor is open and comfortable. This is when your seduction game has to kick in. It’s time to take it to the next level by asking her to dance. Gently touch her lower back, and see if she leans into you. Whisper sweet nothings in hear ear, and head for the make out zone.
Good luck!