Sex. You’re doing it all wrong. Only you don’t know it yet.
What a wonderful world it would be if sex was a straightforward deal where each lover was wholly fulfilled by the act within itself. But sadly, this is never the case. Becoming a lover extraordinaire takes time, practice, and patience. The more we are self-aware of how we behave in the bedroom, the more we can pinpoint what’s working and what’s not.
Here are a few things you should be looking out for:
Are you listening?
Many women complain that their partners simply don’t listen to their needs in the bedroom, or pick up on non-verbal social cues. If you’re woman is telling you that wants something slower or faster, don’t get defensive. Many men like to think that they know what they’re doing, but the truth is that everyone is different, and we need various forms of stimulation to reach to the “Big O”. Listen to your lady. The sex will be better for the both of you.
Is there enough foreplay?
Women need foreplay. Fact. There is no such thing as diving into the deep end, if she’s not ready to have you down there. Sex is a sensual experience for women, and as such, she needs some time to get things heated up. In fact, foreplay will almost always guarantee that she has an orgasm, and it will make her yearn for you even more.
Are you clean down there?
There are smells that you can tolerate that women cannot. Don’t be lazy, women like to lick, touch, and feel a man who is fresh and clean. If you’re finding that you’ve got some funky odor coming from down there, then we suggest you get yourself a razor and some shaving cream pronto. Your pubic hair tends to trap unwanted smells of sweat, and whatever else is happening in your boxers.