A huge fun killer on a date is the awkward silences that often come about when you run out of things to say to each other. You should just try and relax so that you can talk to them like an old friend. If you are nervous it will show through when you try to communicate with them. You can even appear jittery, so take your deep breaths and relax. Your date is not going to bite you unless you want her to.
The best way to make sure you enjoy the date is to go somewhere that you can talk to each other. This is especially helpful on the first few dates when you are trying to get to know each other. The best places are coffee houses or restaurants. Movies can be okay, but you can’t really talk when you are sitting in a movie. Dates like these just need a little jump-start to be more effective. Try adding some adventure by going somewhere unexpected after the date even if it is just a walk in the park. Other fun things that you can do that will be fun are; bowling, going to the arcade, maybe ice skating. Just doing things that are out of the box are fun for first, second, third, or fourth dates. Keeping it creative will make your dates more relaxed and fun.
Don’t be afraid to get creative with your dating destinations. Just make sure you fill your date in on what you will be doing ahead of time to make sure that they are cool with it. It can have the opposite effect if your date hates ice skating, or wears giant heels not knowing that you plan on taking her for a walk. These things can put a damper on what you hoped would be a fun evening.