You have only been on a date with this girl for a few minutes and you already know that you want a second date. How are you going to sell yourself to her during this date to ensure that happens? Hopefully you have laid the ground work by cleaning up, dressing nice, and putting on some cologne. Hopefully you have taken her to a great place where you can talk and get to know one another. Now how do you lock in a second date?
The first thing you should do is be nice to the waitress or the people around wherever you are. If you are rude to the people assisting you or anyone in her presence then that is a good reason for her not to go out with you again. You should ask her about yourself and make sure you listen when she responds. Ask her about her work, her family, her hobbies, and anything else. Women love to talk about their selves and you will get points for caring. Pick up the tab, because it is not only the gentlemanly thing to do, but it looks good. They may argue with you, but going Dutch is something that might cost you the second date.
If the date went well and you think that she is into you then give her a kiss. If you do not kiss her good night then you may not get a second date because she doesn’t think you are into her. Don’t call her the next day, but wait about two days so you do not seem too eager. Don’t wait too long though, because after four days she is going to write you off. Follow all these tips and you will be well on your way to getting the second date locked in before the first on is over.