Women really need to be warmed up before sex can ensue, because unlike men who are good to go at any second we need to be prepared for it. We need a little help getting started, and men are supposed to know how to do it correctly, but in case you don’t here are some tips to get you started in the right direction. Most women will appreciate the time you take before you start trying to ram and go.
Naughty Talk
Telling a girl exactly what you want to do to her without actually doing it yet can be a huge turn on. You get her thinking about it and anticipating it. She can become extremely turned on by just the right words, if you cannot stand to not touch her, then just avoid the naughtiest parts until after the initial description of what you will be doing to her is over. That sounds really technical, but it won’t be when you get into the moment.
Start before you get Home
Nothing says you can’t start before you leave the restaurant for the date to get her really ready when you get home. Pat her bottom, kiss her passionately, play footsie or rub against her breasts in the car. All these are signs of what’s to come later and can be a great turn on.
Watch Porn
Contrary to popular belief women do enjoy porn, but you will need to make sure before you turn it on that she is okay with watching it. If she is make sure you touch her, and kiss her during it so she doesn’t think that you are turned on by it instead of her. She will get turned on when you tell her you want to do just what they are doing. Make sure you don’t put in one that is too kinky though. That can turn her off quickly.
With these foreplay tips you should be able to have your girlfriend ready and waiting for you to take her. Remember it is worth putting in the little extra time.
