In one easy statement it certainly can be. Now don’t be that couple that is trying this for the first time and end up with pulled muscles and sprained spines in the emergency room. Here are the simple rules to the art that is rough sex which when done right can satisfy the most primal of urges you never realized you had.
Rough sex doesn’t need to venture into violence. Rough sex is the just different then the vanilla peaches and cream sex that is the norm.
Above everything else the both of you must consent. Make sure you both sex hell yeah let’s do this out loud. Always have a safe-word before you venture into this unchartered territory with your mate. Start easy by just pulling hair, see if this is responded with an influx of desire. After the ease of pulling hair you can move onto the art of spanking.
The one thing people forget is pain and pleasure both release endorphins and sex can be as enjoyable as both of you can stand. Take your time and learn your limits. Games will be made up. Buy yourselves a whip at the sex store and go to town. Just remember though if the safe word is uttered at all then you need to stop. I don’t care if your mid orgasmic thrust STOPS. But if this doesn’t occur make sure it is fun on both sides. My general rule of thumb is doing leave marks I can’t cover. If he spanks my ass I don’t have to worry about my neighbor seeing my red ass the next day. The general rule is not on hands or face. If you keep everything below your everyday clothing then no one will ever be the wiser. So have fun and explore your boundaries.