You are dating a beautiful girl but she s not much of a talker. You have covered everything from your job to Deal with a Quiet Date
your morning ritual. You are quickly running out of things to talk about with her, and you have another date approaching quickly. It feels like pulling teeth to make small talk with her, and it gets frustrating. You have to do something, here are some helpful tips. These are better ways to get her to open up then telling her she is too quiet. That is something she might take offense to.
Complimenting her might help her open up to you. Once you show her that you like her she might get a little more comfortable being around you. This may lead to her sharing more with you. Her being shy could stem from fear of rejection. She may have low self esteem so paying her a compliment can help break through that barrier. Ask questions that she cannot respond to with a simple yes or no. If you ask her how and why questions then you can almost force her to have to communicate. These types of questions not only get her talking, but show her you are interested in learning more about her.
Make sure that you listen to what she is saying. Once you have gotten her to start talking to you then the worst thing you can do is appear not to be listening. You should not try to derail her back to talking about you; there will be plenty of time for that later. Feel free to disagree with her, if you just nod and say yes to everything she is saying then that can also seem like you are not really listening. Follow these three tips and hopefully you will be able to get your quiet date to start talking to you.