Bad dates, we’ve all been on them. You know the type: When you walk into the restaurant, take one look at your date, and think “Oh my God, what was I thinking?” He/she opens their mouth, and the first words uttered are like spikes to your spine. We thought there was initial attraction, however the date is somehow plummeting and you aren’t sure why. Knowing when and why a date is going horribly wrong can save you a lot of time, effort and energy when it comes to finding. Let’s take a look at some common indicators that you should probably throw in the towel:
Uncomfortable silences – Silence is bound to happen on your date. It’s only natural because you two are getting to know each other. However, if the silences are consecutive and drawn out for long periods of time then the truth is that you have nothing to talk about. Neither of you are comfortable sharing details about your life, or responding favorably to questions being answered.
Looking at the time – Body language will identify all the arising problems brewing within your date’s mind. If they’re looking at the time, or seem really distracted when you’re talking to them then it’s likely that they’re hoping and praying for the night to end quickly.
Lack of interest in you – If you find yourself asking all the questions and answering none then it’s probable that your date isn’t interested in the relationship going any further. Both parties will show signs of interest through reaching out and asking a variety of questions about a person’s life, history, hobbies and interests.
Lack of physical touch – You make a move to hold your date’s hand and she shudders away from you, or you lightly tap him on the shoulder and he recoils in terror; these are not good signals. If we like someone and we trust them then we would invite them to embrace us.