Shy men baffle women with their inability to initiate contact and make other feel comfortable. If you’re currently interested in dating a shy guy, then you need to take note of how and why he responds to certain situations the way he does. Here are just a few different scenarios and how the shy guy might react to them:
Scenario 1: Talking to an attractive woman
For the shy guy, attractive women are aliens from another planet. They are overwhelmingly intimidating and make shy guys feel like they’re 3 feet tall. This means that they are too anxious to start a conversation and always unsure of themselves regarding whether or not to make the first move. There is an invisible barrier that prevents them from being them so they often screw up and make small mistakes which they see as huge failures.
Scenario 2: Asking a girl out
Some shy guys are good at initiating contact with a woman that they are interested in, but when the time comes to take the lead they falter. He doesn’t t have the confidence to approach the women and simply ask her out due the fear of rejection. If he really likes a girl, he feels too nervous to ask her out and puts it off for so long that it just never happens. At this point, they’re already in the friend zone.
Scenario 3: Potentially dating a woman with more experience
Shy guys might love women, but that doesn’t mean they’re game is up there. They inherently think that no experienced woman would be interested because they don’t have the patience to deal with their shyness. You’ll notice that the shy guy will never go for a strong, extroverted woman who has had many boyfriends because she scares him too much. He’d rather go for younger, more innocent girls because they don’t frighten him as much.