When we think of double dating, we often conjure up images of teenagers too shy to spend quality time alone with their dates. For the younger folks, having the company of friends brings a warm and comforting that removes those awkward silences, and creates a casual atmosphere. As we get older, and become more serious about our partners, we too need to get serious about who we choose to hang out with as a couple. We’re certainly not in high school anymore, and this means that you probably won’t be using the double date tactic to woo your partner; however it is one to take full advantage of when you are actually in a relationship.
Hanging out with other couples is great for your relationship, and we strongly suggest you attain some couple friends in order to strengthen the bond within your own relationship.
First and foremost, more than two is usually more interesting because you’ve got a range of personalities to vibe and feed off one another. There is never a dull moment because someone will always be talking or saying something entertaining. Awkward silences are destined to far more likely in a one on one situation – which isn’t a bad thing, but if you’ve been with your partner long enough it’s nice to have some other company.
Getting to know other couples will also help your relationship because you can compare your relationship style with theirs, and see what strengths/weakness they or you have. Sometimes just observing other couples helps you see your relationship objectively which is always positive. Furthermore, you will notice how your partner acts around others. Are they different? Or do they treat you differently around other people?
Knowing how to double date is an essential skill for all couples in the pursuit of a healthy, fulfilling and long-term relationship because you have a network of friends who are a) in relationships themselves b) share your interests and c) don’t mind if you bring out the boyrfriend/girlfriend (unlike your other single friends).