So you and your partner have decided to break the routine, and start seeing other couples. Congratulations, opening yourself up to the world of double dating can dramatically strengthen the relationship you have with your current partner. No longer are date nights just the same old, same old now you actually have to dress up, as well as, share your history as a couple with another couple.
Double dating can be a lot of fun if you do it right, and that’s why we’re exploring some of the best ways to make your outing memorable. Take note of the following:
– If you decide to go for dinner, ensure that you have confirmed the restaurant with the other couple. You never know, perhaps they have allergies or an aversion to certain types of foods.
– Choose your couple wisely. If they just fell in love and are all over each other then it’s likely that they’re going to be kissing in the corner the whole night, so the entire point of double dating is completely useless.
– Your double date couple should have similar interests as you, and should ideally be friends outside of work as you don’t want to spend the whole night talking about office drama.
– Opt for the pre-outing drinks at either your place at theirs. This will give you time to talk, and ease into the night. If you or partner are good friends with either person in the couple, then its important that they tell you bit about their partner so that you have some common ground to work with.
– When sitting in restaurant or a bar, opt for the booth and ensure that you are sitting next to your partner. This allows for those private intimate moments when necessary, but also shows respect and space towards the other couple. Would be strange if the men/women sat together, or if partners were switched. They might think it’s a swinger situation!
– Don’t bicker and fight with your partner in front another couple. It’s just rude. Same goes for getting too personal or spilling too many beans about the relationship.
– Know who’s paying for dinner. Are you splitting it? Or will one couple pick up the tab? This is very important as it can be awkward when everyone is fighting to pay the bill.
– Have an interactive outing – like bowling, playing pool, go carting etc. This is appropriate if you don’t know the couple too well. It will give an opportunity to bond over shared experience.