The swing lifestyle has gained a lot of popular attention of the past few years, and the result of this attention has been the propagation of stereotypes perpetuated by the media and through word of mouth. Like all things, you won’t fully understand swinging unless you do it yourself, but if you’re considering the swing lifestyle and are reluctant thanks to the rumors, then here are just few myths we are going to implode …
Myth 1: Swingers are old, fat and ugly
Might surprise you but there are a lot of young swingers too. They generally range between the ages of 25 – 40. Like any bar or club you frequent, swingers come in all shapes and sizes, and its likely that you’ll find whatever body type you’re into provided you’re going to the right places and you know the right people.
Myth 2: Swingers are nymphomaniacs
A couple doesn’t choose to embrace swinging because they can’t have enough sex with just each other. In fact, couples who choose to swing do it because they are interested in trying something new and building a stronger a emotional connection/intimacy with their current partners. Swingers do not have sex with everyone; they mesh with the couples most suitable for them and take it from there.
Myth 3: Swingers love gang bangs
We can’t talk for all swingers and we can’t talk for all humans, but our guess is that there are people who swing who like group just as much as you’re next door neighbor or your work colleague (only you don’t know). Swingers come from all walks from life, and many are selective about whom they sleep with. It’s not a free for all. Couples meet other couple maintain a sense of trust. It’s more of a community than a hedonistic paradise layer.