When it comes to teasing women, some men take it too far. They make inappropriate jokes about a woman’s physical features, job, family or friends and these types of jokes can sometimes be downright offensive. Sure, women know that men like to tease and poke fun at each other, but what many don’t realize is that teasing a woman properly requires a certain sense of skill and playfulness. You have to know what to say and when to say it.
Teasing should be used to make her laugh, and offer her a good idea of your sense of humor. It can easily lead to rejection, so take note of the following tips of what to do when it comes to making fun of that special someone:
Perfect your delivery
If you’re going to make fun of her then its dire that you remember how your vocal tone and body language affects the way you drop a joke. If you’re delivery is too dry then she might just take you seriously and she will be led onto think that you are a jerk. You don’t want this. Review some of your favorite comedians and see how they handle their deliveries. The tone is usually sarcastic, and they are often smiling while simultaneously making fun of themselves.
The point system is good for beginners
If you’re just getting to know a girl, you might start to discover that you two might have some differences. She might be into Britney Spears, while you might like Metallica. A funny way to deal with these differences is to introduce “The Point System” where you say she loses a point for disagreeing with something you like. It could be over the fact that she likes Thai food, and you prefer Indian food. Or that she supports the Maple Leafs when you support the Oilers. Either way, you get the gist. It’s a funny way of pointing out subtle differences and teasing each other’s tastes.
Teasing vs. Nastiness
There is a fine line between having a good laugh and hurting someone’s feelings. Some women are particularly sensitive to teasing either because of troubled background or perhaps because they take themselves too seriously. It’s important for you to feel out what it appropriate and what could be offensive. For example, if she’s wearing crazy high heels you might offend her by saying, “Geez, what is up with those shoes? You look like a clown wearing stilts.” – this is mean. A better version of this exact joke would go like this: “With high heels like that you better watch out for the birds” – it’s funny and not personal. She can chuckle about it and not feel like a fool for wearing those shoes. Walk the line carefully as it could make or break the relationship (or the imminent possibility of sex).