She’s the type of girl every guy tries to avoid. The one who doesn’t return the favor – by this, we mean that you went down on her, but she just came and didn’t even do anything afterwards. She didn’t even give you a hand job. This probably sounds like every dudes worst nightmare, but we assure that there are ways to deal with such women. It just takes time, patience and some strong convincing.
If you really like this girl, and you think there could be potential for something serious, then you will have to accept that she’s not willing to suck you off just yet. For many women giving a man a blowjob is quite a serious endeavor. It’s a strong sign of trust and attraction if she goes down on you, and allows you to blow a load in her mouth. Some women might fear oral sex due to the stigma surrounding girls who offer it freely i.e. that they’re labeled as sluts. Depending on your perspectives, this opinion can go either way.
On the one hand, sex is a mutual exchange where both partners want to satisfy each other. It’s a give and take process that involves intimacy. If she’s not willing to go down on you, then it’s likely that she doesn’t know you well enough to feel comfortable and trust that you won’t judge her. Think back to what you’ve said about previous girls or past sexual experiences – does she have any reason to feel squeamish? Aim to resolve these issues through open, effective communication. Ask her why she won’t return the favor and hear her reasons. If she’s not ready, then you might have to accept that until it becomes ridiculous.
The other side of story could be that she’s just really selfish. She simply takes, but never gives. At the very least, she’ll spoil you with the odd hand-job; however you get the impression that she’s never going to budge. Use your own discretion to determine your personal value on oral sex. If she won’t do it, then you shouldn’t have to either. Immediately switch up the routine, and stop giving her what she wants. This number might make her realize what she’s missing out on.