There are several ways to get each other in the mood for sex when both of you are tired but still want to have an intimate time with each other. Sometimes you and your partner feel like you don’t have enough time to have sex because of time constraints. Logistically speaking, you only need five to ten minutes, otherwise known as a quickie.
Another reason that you are thinking of forgoing having sex is because you feel too tired after a long work day and therefore don’t feel in the mood. This can be solved by putting the idea of sex in one another’s mind all day from start to finish. Start off the day with a lustful goodbye kiss and text each other throughout the day to let the other one know that you are thinking about what may happen later. When you get home you will both be ready and willing to hop in the sack. You may think that planning sex is the farthest thing from sexy but if you excite each other all day about it then it will be like all day foreplay.
If you aren’t mentally in the mood another option is to get into the bed and under the covers naked. Just by having physical contact you may find yourselves kissing and touching and soon doing what you said you weren’t in the mood for.
If work schedules are getting in the way of sex, make weekends your time to get it on. Make the time that you do have even more special by planning a sensual weekend together where you seldom leave the bedroom. You can even take it a step further by planning a weekend away complete with a couples massage, hot tub, and a swanky hotel room.