Personal ads are still actually something people use no matter how old school they may seem. So how do you make yours stand out, and draw in the type of people you are looking for? You don’t have to stick to the old single white male searching for single white female thing. That is a good way to be really boring with your ad, make it catchy. There are ways. Follow some of the tips listed below.
If you are looking for a long term relationship then put that in your ad. You do this for two reasons. You want people to know that you are committed to finding something serious. You also want them to know where you stand to begin with. This lets them know you are not looking for flings so if they are, steer clear. You can feel free to include hobbies and passions of yours. You are trying to find someone that you have things in common with. This is an important part of the ad and an important part of good relationships.
You can even put things you are not looking for in your ad. If you do not want someone with children or a busy work schedule then you can put that in there as well. There is nothing wrong with stating what you don’t want as long as you aren’t rude about it. You can also put in your ad that you are active if you enjoy outdoor activities and working out. This way you are not attracting those who lead sedentary lives. Let them know key facts about your personality like that you are outgoing or honest. Just make sure that you really are the things you say they are, or they will figure out your ad lied.