Many women are weary of a man who seems to smooth and knows exactly how to pick up women. Sure, he’s full of charm, compliments, and confidence, but spotting the difference between genuine man and a player who might hurt you can be tough. Here are the signs you should be looking out for:
He’s a pick-up master
Think about how he approached you. Was he awkward in any way? Or did he approach you with so much confidence that it almost scared you? The thing about players is that they know how to seduce women. They know their targets vulnerabilities, and they know how work their mysterious hypnotic magic with words. If he’s too good at meeting women, then you know he’s been at it for a while. Take it as foreshadowing.
He doesn’t remember the small things
He thinks you’re vegetarian, when you’ve already told him that you love a juicy steak. He thinks you play tennis, when you actually aren’t sporty at all. These are all strong indicators that he’s confusing you for someone else. He may shrug the confusion off by saying that he’s forgetful, or absent minded, he then will then change the subject and attempt to charm your pants off. Don’t be fooled.
He’s says he’ll give you everything you want
One thing is for sure, players know that women a love a man who can security and commitment. That’s why he’s telling you that he wants to go away with you, or wants to do that thing you’ve wanted to do. He knows it make you fall in-love faster, and give it up easier. If he’s too good to be true, then he probably isn’t. He’s definitely not intending on sticking around to deliver these extravagant promises.
Keep your wits about you, and always trust your gut when you think you might be dealing with a player.