Women are mysterious creatures. One minute, they seem into you, then their cold as ice. Fear of rejection is most definitely the number one reason why men don’t approach women they find attractive. Who can blame them? It’s embarrassing, and depressing to be turned down when you got the balls to finally make a move.
But what if you could read the signs of attraction, and know when to go in for the kill?
This is the secret of many debonair pick-up artists, and it all has to do with intuitive understanding of body language and unsaid signals.
Her Proximity
Let’s say you’re at a party, and you start noticing that this girl is pretty much everywhere you go. She’s not in your personal space, but she’s close to it, chatting to all her girlfriends. This is a sure sign that she wants you to notice her.
Her Eyes
If she’s close by and keeps looking over at you, then you should meet her gaze and see if she holds it or turns away. Usually, if a girl is interested she will hold the look for at least 2 seconds, and turn away. However, some girls are shy. If you notice that you’re playing a game of eye-tag, then you’re ready for the next step.
The smile
Once you’ve established the eye-contact, you want to take things to the next level. When she looks at you again, offer a smile – not a big, cheesy grin! Just a nice, sweet friendly smile. It she returns the favor, then you know she’s interested. Now is the time to make your move, and get over there before she gets impatient. Approach slowly, with a calm sense of confidence, and say, “hi”.
Always make sure you’re reading her body language even after you make the approach. Sometimes people are nice from afar, but far from nice in reality.