First impressions count. No matter how nice, charming or personable you are, people will always judge you based on their first initial encounter with you. It’s a mental image that sticks and defines your personality. When it comes to dating and meeting new romantic interest, nothing could be more important than coming across in a positive sense. But how simple is it to accomplish?
Follow these steps, and people will be sure to remember your name and be intrinsically attracted to you.
Pretend the person you’re meeting is a good friend
The reason we all feel anxious when we introduce ourselves to someone new stems from the fact that we realize we’ve never met this person before. That’s why it’s important to alter your mindset, and make a determined effort to be more friendly and outgoing – the same way you would be if you were seeing an old friend. You’ll notice that your body language will change suddenly, and you will definitely be more open. This is comforting for many people, because the truth is that no one really enjoys engaging in conversation with a shy, closed-off person.
Open body language is the key
Forget about crossing your arms or legs – these are indicators of a closed off disposition. Turn your shoulders towards to person you’re talking, and extend your demeanor. Make your smile a lot, and meet their gaze. Don’t stare at people; just make relaxed eye contact which suggests that you’re interested in what they’re saying. Also if you have to turn away, make sure you do it in a subtle sense and that you’re not darting your eyes awkwardly.
Don’t think about it too much
The last thing you want to do when meeting a new person is come across as eager and over-friendly. You want to ensure that you’re only giving off friendly vibes. When you’re over thinking the scenario, many people can sense it because you’re coming across as fake or trying too hard. Be yourself, but be sure offer the best side of yourself without being artificial.