If you’re a dude, and you’re having a hard time meeting women online then it’s safe to say you’re making a few mistakes. Let’s face it, online dating is completely different from the real world, so you’ve got to know what to say, how to come across, and what to avoid doing entirely.
There are few common mistakes men make when messaging women, and here’s how you can spot them.
Mistake #1: Being Creepy
Even if you’re on a dating site that is strictly dedicated to hookups and casual sex, you cannot take for granted that women still want to be treated like ladies. This means that can’t message someone and say, “Hey, you’re hot. I love your tits. Message me back sometime.” These types of messages never work unless you’re messaging a prostitute. You actually have to put work into your message, and make your compliments thoughtful and non-physical.
Mistake #2: Ignoring her interests
If you are messaging someone, the assumption is that you’ve taken the time to peruse their profile, and you’ve concluded that there might be a spark there. If she states in her profile that she doesn’t like smokers or men with excessive tattoos and you are both these things, then do not message her. She will not reply. Look at what she wants, and see how well it compares with who you are.
Mistake #3: Getting angry at her for not replying
So many women on online dating sites complain that men will harass them until they get a response. And even if the woman blows you off with a short “No Thank You” then it’s up to you not to take it personally. Just accept her decision, and move on. Don’t message back and tell her that she’s a bitch. Not cool man.