Sex is a risky (and frisky) business. Everyone has a different approach. Some are into slow, sensual love-making, while others like to get rough and kinky. There are also those who like to role-play or use certain toys to spice things up.
What we crave in the bedroom really depends on who we are, and what we fantasize about the most. But when we first meet people, it can be difficult to tell what their like between the sheets. We all know the myth of the sweet, innocent-looking meek girl who turns out to be one nasty freak in the bedroom. Then again, the most extroverted, and outgoing lady could become a shy and inhibited, and literally just sit there with her legs open, not providing any feedback on her enjoyment levels. This is never a good situation.
So how do you never know whether you’re bringing home the Virgin Mary or Jenna Jameson?
Watch out for these signs:
She likes Exotic Foods
We are what we eat. Our taste in food says a lot about who we are. Those who generally stick to the same cookie-cutter regime of foods they know, trust and love, are generally boring in the bedroom because they don’t like to venture out and try new things. Meanwhile, if the woman you’re with has an exotic palate that reaches far and wide, it’s safe to say that the exact same attitude will extend to the bedroom. If she’s spontaneous about her food choices, that’s even better.
She knows what she wants
Ever been on a date with a girl who is finicky and indecisive? She can’t settle on what she wants to order from the menu, or which movie to see. If she can’t make basic choices during her day-to-day then the odds are that she doesn’t know what she wants in the bedroom. A woman who is confident, comfortable enough to voice your opinion and say what she wants will likely offer good feedback in the bedroom, and let you know exactly which buttons are the right ones to be pushing.
She’s a good kisser
This is perhaps the oldest rule in the book. But it’s been proven time and time again that if a woman can give some good lip then she’s certainly comfortable with using those skills elsewhere. Look for anticipation in the kiss. It shouldn’t be sloppy and overbearing, rather it should start slow, and work its way up to a hot and steamy session. If she’s tugging on your lip a bit, then you know she might have a kinky side to her.