Swingers are a people who are often married or are in long term relationships. They are committed to each other, but they get off on swapping with other couples that are in committed relationships. The husband will be sleeping with the other man’s wife, and vice versa. It is exciting for all the parties involved and is looked at as a fair trade off. So how do you get started with the whole swinging scene?
The first thing to know is what not to do. You should never assume that someone you know will be down with swinging. It can be very insulting to someone if you ask to sleep with their partner and they are not a swinger. Flat out asking is just not something you should do. You need to get involved in swinger’s group activities. There are tons of groups that you can join, and you can find them right in your area. When you are with a whole group of swingers, you don’t have to worry that you are going to offend someone. Your best bet is to find swinger’s forums, chat room, dating sites, and group advertisements are to look online for them. You can use all these resources instead of flying blind and not knowing where to look.
The websites and information you find will give you a great place to start and you can begin to meet up with these groups to find people you want to swing with. Once you find the groups you can attend meet and greets, or directly chat with them on the website. You will be surprised how many people are actually into swinging and the fact that you can find them easily once you know where to look. You can connect with one couple or several. It just depends on what you are looking for.