Usually, you shouldn’t go all out with a kiss at the end of a first date. First date kisses mostly involve light pecks at the cheeks or even on the lips. These kisses should only be allowed once you feel comfortable enough with your date. You should never try to stick your tongue down their throat unless they invite you to. Sharing moments are usually the best times to kiss on a date, especially if you’re talking about something personal. You will feel the mood change when it is time to move in, and just be respectful about it.
Sometimes when you are feeling silly or joking around you can sneak in a kiss. The situation doesn’t need to be dramatic and serious to kiss. The right moment to kiss during these sharing moments is when you feel comfortable sharing your personal perceptions and experiences with your date. At the end of the date, you can give them a light peck on the cheek. If you are feeling braver then you can give a friendly kiss on the lips if you happen to feel the urge. If everything went well then maybe you can go on another date. If the kiss goes well then you can definitely go on another date.
Learn how to read the room, if you have an awkward silence, or worse you say something that upsets or offends her then do not go in for the kiss to defuse the situation. Often times it will just make it that much worse. You will definitely not get a second date if you press the issue and try to force yourself on someone who just isn’t ready for it. Be patient, all the great kisses are worth waiting for. You can only have the first kiss between you one time so you better make it special.